He is playing you, expecting you to continue to be a fine and good human being and to continue to care about him when he shows you through both words and actions that you clearly do not register on his Important Things meter. Do not be fooled by his appearance of sweetness. He has shown you his real feelings already, and they contradict every friendly half-assed gesture he makes.
Do not prolong it. Rip off the band aid now. It will sting for a while and then it won't.
You are not a bad person - nor a petty one - for not taking care of his shit while he's away. He's not your responsibility. If he wants to treat you like a burden rather than as a gift, then the inconveniences he experiences after you leave are HIS problem, not yours.
You are so close to doing exactly the right thing. Go forth and do.
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He is playing you, expecting you to continue to be a fine and good human being and to continue to care about him when he shows you through both words and actions that you clearly do not register on his Important Things meter. Do not be fooled by his appearance of sweetness. He has shown you his real feelings already, and they contradict every friendly half-assed gesture he makes.
Do not prolong it. Rip off the band aid now. It will sting for a while and then it won't.
You are not a bad person - nor a petty one - for not taking care of his shit while he's away. He's not your responsibility. If he wants to treat you like a burden rather than as a gift, then the inconveniences he experiences after you leave are HIS problem, not yours.
You are so close to doing exactly the right thing. Go forth and do.
Hugz of strength to you.