I'm sure if I had said that, it would have been a joke. Though, I'll admit, if forced to pick Jadzia Dax out of a DS9 lineup, I think I'd only be able to do it if the other folks were, like, Ferengi and Julian and the guy who lives in a pail -- Odo! Everything I know about DS9 I learned from Sab writing fic for it.
Re: the dyke mafia